A very humorous anecdote
a newly married couple they were taking a stroll in a garden. As the wife walks, a thorn pricks her leg and she cries out. The husband with tears in his eyes holds the leg and lovingly pulls the thorn out. Then, he endearingly asks her to be careful while walking Six months later, once again they are going for a walk and unfortunately a thorn pricks her feet again. The husband now is a little irritated. He waits until she pulls out the thorn herself and then giving her a frown, continues moving forward.
Another six months pass by. The husband and wife still had not given up the habit of taking a stroll. Again, the wife is hurt in the same manner. This time, the husband is furious. He shouts, “You blind lady, can't you see? Don't you have eyes? Get rid of the thorn and come fast.” Well, what happened to all that love and affection which existed just a year and a half ago?”
“This is the nature of anuraga, which is the Karma aspect of Prema, that is, the binding aspect of love. While true love liberates, anuraga binds. True love is pure, whereas anuraga is impure. True love is all-pervasive, whereas anuraga is limited and confined.” that is blog anuragamaya says something difft topics !!
“True love is like the rose flower, whereas anuraga is like the thorn, comparable to lust.”
“The real challenge in life is how you pluck the flower of love without getting pricked by the thorn of lust.”
Anuraga can be transformed into true love….One of the main limitations of anuraga is that it has a quality of possessiveness, where one tries to possess the other and assume ownership only because he or she is scared of losing the other person. This obviously is suffocating for the other person, as it takes away the most important gift of life - freedom. Freedom is dear to everyone and the moment anyone comes in its way, that person starts withdrawing immediately, which leads to a lot of heartburn and unnecessary pain.
I would like to remind u here one of best aspect If one holds sand on his two open palms, he can very well retain the grains. But the moment his open palms start clenching to possess the sand, he sees the dust particles slipping out.
The same applies in our lives. The moment you invade the freedom of the other person and try to control them, they go away from you. But the moment you give them the space, so that they can be what they want to be, they come back to you. Just like the butterfly that flies away if you try to catch it, but comes back and sits right on your shoulder if you remain in one place. We need to stop this mad chase of possession.
So, none of this love really gives us that sense of fulfilment. To put it crisply, the body attracts, the intellect admires, but it is only the soul which connects.
Giving a very contemporary example of the server and clients, u know that all the clients are connected to the server, whereas the other workstations are like various terminals. A client can very easily interact with another client, but it is really not linked or related to it, but both of them are definitely related to the server. thus today conclude the topic of luv related in difft forms..as...this.. way, love, though it may be between a husband and wife, or between two individuals, or between an individual and an object, it is ultimately sourced from that one cosmic source of love,So called divine of luv..!!
a newly married couple they were taking a stroll in a garden. As the wife walks, a thorn pricks her leg and she cries out. The husband with tears in his eyes holds the leg and lovingly pulls the thorn out. Then, he endearingly asks her to be careful while walking Six months later, once again they are going for a walk and unfortunately a thorn pricks her feet again. The husband now is a little irritated. He waits until she pulls out the thorn herself and then giving her a frown, continues moving forward.
Another six months pass by. The husband and wife still had not given up the habit of taking a stroll. Again, the wife is hurt in the same manner. This time, the husband is furious. He shouts, “You blind lady, can't you see? Don't you have eyes? Get rid of the thorn and come fast.” Well, what happened to all that love and affection which existed just a year and a half ago?”
“This is the nature of anuraga, which is the Karma aspect of Prema, that is, the binding aspect of love. While true love liberates, anuraga binds. True love is pure, whereas anuraga is impure. True love is all-pervasive, whereas anuraga is limited and confined.” that is blog anuragamaya says something difft topics !!
“True love is like the rose flower, whereas anuraga is like the thorn, comparable to lust.”
“The real challenge in life is how you pluck the flower of love without getting pricked by the thorn of lust.”
Anuraga can be transformed into true love….One of the main limitations of anuraga is that it has a quality of possessiveness, where one tries to possess the other and assume ownership only because he or she is scared of losing the other person. This obviously is suffocating for the other person, as it takes away the most important gift of life - freedom. Freedom is dear to everyone and the moment anyone comes in its way, that person starts withdrawing immediately, which leads to a lot of heartburn and unnecessary pain.
I would like to remind u here one of best aspect If one holds sand on his two open palms, he can very well retain the grains. But the moment his open palms start clenching to possess the sand, he sees the dust particles slipping out.
The same applies in our lives. The moment you invade the freedom of the other person and try to control them, they go away from you. But the moment you give them the space, so that they can be what they want to be, they come back to you. Just like the butterfly that flies away if you try to catch it, but comes back and sits right on your shoulder if you remain in one place. We need to stop this mad chase of possession.
So, none of this love really gives us that sense of fulfilment. To put it crisply, the body attracts, the intellect admires, but it is only the soul which connects.
Giving a very contemporary example of the server and clients, u know that all the clients are connected to the server, whereas the other workstations are like various terminals. A client can very easily interact with another client, but it is really not linked or related to it, but both of them are definitely related to the server. thus today conclude the topic of luv related in difft forms..as...this.. way, love, though it may be between a husband and wife, or between two individuals, or between an individual and an object, it is ultimately sourced from that one cosmic source of love,So called divine of luv..!!
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